Elle,
welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are several different options available to us and it all depends on the path that we choose. Each of your daughters will want to pursue the career of their choice. As they continue to mature you will see where their individual interests lie. You can encourage them and direct them to activities that will strengthen their skills. I sense that your daughters might choose careers different from one another. I sense that they will be cautious when the time comes to select husbands.
Best wishes,