I am at a crossroads in my life, I am in a relationship with a great man whos past has left him as ” damaged goods” his words not mine! I cannot heal him I’m aware of that but I want to give him the trust and security he has never had….. He is very list right now and it is affecting my whole life. He keeps telling me to go live my life that he will bring me down. He is pulling back and I don’t know if perhaps it’s time to move forward with my life, I wish I had insight if he wants to heal, if he is just lost or too damaged to be healthy for me.