Yes to money but focus positively to bring it to you. If you focus on lack, you will have lack. I taught my kids to pick up every penny they find and say “thank you God that you supply our needs”. You could adjust this to your belief system and thank the Universe, Godess or whatever higher power you believe in. As far as Dave, I don’t know if he is a cheater but I did not feel good about him on some level. Just a shudder, not a specific. Trust your instincts about him!!!!