Love life – Any advice?

[vinip123]

Hi I am Vini
23rd August 1989
I am dating a guy and he is kinda angry with me
I tried but he is not talking much(Its been weeks)
And he is not breaking up as well (Confusing)

Can you give me some advice?
What I should be doing at this stage?

[KathyN]

Vini,
Welcome to the forums! It is possible that he is angry at something else that is going on in his life, but he might be taking it out on you. Have you specifically asked him if something is bothering him? If he is unwilling to share with you and doesn’t treat you right, you should not be expected to tolerate this behavior. You might first want to give him the opportunity to discuss your relationship. If he isn’t willing then you shouldn’t continue to subject yourself to an unpleasant situation.

Best wishes,
🙂

[vinip123]

Hey Hi 🙂
WE talked a few times
He said he is upset and can not forget my words.
Actually he is very sensitive, if we ever argue he gets upset.

He said he is not thinking of break up but wants to be alone.
I told him I will work on my habits but he prefers being alone (he is still angry)

I made valentine cards and poems, he accepted
I made a bag for his mom and he took that too (I thought he would refuse)

I am giving him space but dont know when he will be back 🙁

[KathyN]

It appears that he is playing some kind of game. He says he wants to be alone, but yet he doesn’t want to break up. He might be afraid of making a commitment. This is unfair to you. If you aren’t in a committed relationshp with him, you should feel free to date other guys and not wait for him. There are obviously some control issues here. It is only natural that a couple disagree on certain subjects from time to time. You should be entitled to your opinion. This is something like when you “agree to disagree”. You have told him that you are making an effort to work on things that he is uncomfortable with. You have done all that you can for now. The next step is up to him. If he does decide to try again, there is a chance that he might do the same thing over again with the withdrawal and wanting to be alone. Some people just can’t seem to change. So you might want to do yourself a favor and not wait too long for him?

Best wishes,
🙂

[vinip123]

Thanks 🙂

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