Welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are several different options that may come our way. A lot depends on which path you choose. I sense that you aren’t certain right now of what you actually want. What do you feel would be your best option? If you sincerely want to reconcile with your ex, can you make attempts to do this? If you really do want to meet someone new this might take some time to really connect with the right person– but could happen.
Best wishes,
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