I was confused for a second because on your message it said she. I apologize. I was very confused. He will pick you over his family. It’s just that he is really intertwined with his family and it’s hard to get that personal space you need at first. They will always be there. I want to pray for you for a willingness to be patient because you need to be strong and at the very least not give him a reason to react negatively towards any complaints that you may have because of a feeling of maybe getting put in second place. Try to shift your outlook and don’t let him see you get so excited about it because that makes it worse. Be home and be beautiful, calm, (patient), and I will help. He will get bored with them. Just don’t stir the pot where his energy and focus divert elsewhere. I’m very sorry this is happening. I know it’s hard and painful to have to put up with these things. I will help as much as I can to make the process easier but the patience will pay off. I promise.