Hey there,
Yes, there are hidden things. But it’s up to you to decide if you should invest the time to find out what they are.
This is a learning experience for you.
You need to ask HIM how he feels so he can get the chance to tell you.
If we could go to a psychic every time we started dating someone and get a guaranteed answer, we’d never learn how to navigate a relationship for ourselves. This is how you learn courage, insight, empathy, self love… This kind of stuff teaches you to be your own guide 🙂 because that’s going to be far more useful to you. Good luck with your new adventure!