Is Paolo right for me?

[Anonymous]

I am so confused. I need guidance and help. Should I cut contact or is he the right man for me?

[EliseG]

I don’t get a sense he’s committed or reliable, but some people are into that. I’m also getting some laziness and taking you for granted. Love isn’t enough, there has to commitment and a willingness. There are still good men out there. Maybe you could give it some more time?

[Anonymous]

Thank you Elise G. He actually has been very committed. It’s me who has been a complete flake. He has treated me like a future wife and planned to propose. He told me he put his apartment up for sale in case we needed it for my visa (he’s in the USA I’m in Australia).
But I’m torn. I don’t know if I should go back to him. If it’s best to just cut contact because the long distance is killing me.
So any other feelings or ideas you might have are really welcome. I can’t eat, sleep…think..without thinking of him and what to do. I just want a resolution. Peacefully.

[FionaM]

I’m getting some of the similar psychic insights about him that Elise picked up. Maybe it’s both of you? I understand this is rough for you, but what exactly is your question?

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