Is he the one?

[Caligirl]

A man from my past has come into my life and we are just friends but I feel very drawn to him and feel like he may be “my person” We have never been a couple or together in any way though we can talk for hours with each other. I’ve never felt connected to anyone like this. thoughts?

[FionaM]

What is your specific question?

[Caligirl]

Thank you for your response.
My specific question is
Is he the one?

[FionaM]

I don’t buy into the who soulmate or twin flames things. Limited way to look at relationships. There are many people on the planet you could be happy with. When I focus on him, I do get a sense of there being a spark towards you. On a lighter level, he’s great with friendships/romance. I also get a hesitation though. He’s concerned about having to make a major change in life, and could be a bit flighty. Keep an eye on his selfish side. I’m concerned it may rear it’s ugly head. I’m not saying it’s hopeless, but I do see some challenges with his willingness to make a full commitment. I keep seeing some type of small business around him, or investments. Has he mentioned this?

[Caligirl]

Such an interesting response! He IS going through some major changes in his life and has become rather flighty because he isn’t very happy. I don’t know anything about any investments but he is trying to make some career changes. He lost his job and that has been very difficult for him. I am fairly certain things will turn out fine for him, as he’s smart and talented. And yes, he can be selfish though I have a sense that if he were to commit he would be totally devoted. Maybe I am wrong?

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