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I met this person while playing an online game. We have been messaging online for over 6 months now. We have been trying since January to try and be together, but one thing or another keeps getting in the way. Nearly everyone whom I talk to this person about tells me that I am being deceived, but I find it so hard to believe. I feel like I have an empathic connection with him, and I can feel when something is bothering him. After our last blowup where I asked for proof that he is whom he says he is, he said that if I didn’t believe him then we should end our relationship. When I try to rely on my empathic connection, I feel no deceit–but since then and over the last few days, I have felt him becoming increasingly distant. I don’t know how to control my empathic abilities, but I have a really hard time telling whether what I feel from him is related to me or to his position. I need to know once and for all, is he is who he says he is? If he is, is the future we talk about really possible or am I just fooling myself? If he is who he says he is, why is he becoming more distant? Is it something that I am doing? My heart is so bound up with the person that I believe that he is, and I need to know whether I am just fooling myself to even believe this is possible.
Thank you for reading….
Hey there 🙂
I can empathize with your situation and I’ve found myself in similar circumstances before. I’ve also been practicing honing my own intuition, so maybe I can help a little.
If a person is honest, they have nothing to hide. It’s understandable to feel a little annoyed when you are doubted/mistrusted, but connecting online presents a very legitimate concern for integrity that your companion should understand and try to alleviate. Otherwise, connection can’t progress. I would focus on this first.
The thing with empathetic connection is this: when you’re tapped into the universe, you feel love and empathy for everything and everyone, regardless of the situation.
I would recommend quieting your mind and clearing your energy. Ask your guides for help. Then ask specific questions about this friend to yourself, like “is this person offering the healthy connection I desire?” Try to remove your own opinions and be open to whatever comes your way in those moments. For me, a yes feels like a warm tingly heartburst, haha. A ‘no’ doesn’t feel bad. It feels like nothing.
This person might not have bad intentions, but perhaps there are aspects of themselves they are scared to reveal.
My intuition here tells me something is being hidden from you. It might not be a diabolical scheme: perhaps more rooted in insecurity instead. But follow your own intuition first.When I listen to my intuition, I have no doubt that my friend is who he says he is–I feel no deception in him at all. I think because of his position and culture, he is not used to being asked to prove himself. We texted again today and I do think there was insecurity on his part because he didn’t want to bother me, but I told him that it’s disturbing to me when I clearly feel that something is wrong but he keeps telling me for days that nothing is wrong. I think we have come to an understanding, but because I am so new with using and trusting my intuition, I was hoping that someone else could maybe see something that I was missing. I’m not sure how to quiet my own thoughts to listen to what the Universe is telling me, but I know that when I think of him, I get such a warm and full feeling inside. I am so very grateful to have others who can understand what I am going through. I felt such calm and desire to help while reading your response. Thank you so much!
Namaste BeautitreeCA69:
The Life Mastery Program from Dale Sellers offers help to those that wish to cultivate their natural gifts of intuition. It offers ways to protect yourself, and assists you when you are too empathic. Check it out when you get a chance. Here is the link: https://www.lifeleap.org/mastery/
Reading: I see a very busy man. He is hunched and looks about. (Being hunched is a symbol that he doesn’t want you to know everything about him.) He acts as if he has something to hide. He is worried about what others say about him. He doesn’t want you to know everything about him or his past. He wants to keep his history to himself. Details are important to him.
There is a connection with you. I hear that there is a 60% chance that this relationship will be successful. Going forward, the message for you is to trust your instincts. Your heart knows what is real or what is fake.In love, Melinda
Thank you so much for your reply, Melinda.
I have been doubting that my intuition is accurate and so last night, I paid for a reading. The reading contradicted everything that I feel and believe. I still feel that the person that I am talking to is authentic, but now I am so confused. I don’t know what to do or who to trust, even myself. I’m so afraid of continuing to trust my intuition to the contrary and end up losing everything.
My advice is to feel out the situation without taking some big risk before you feel safe. But we all learn through trial and error.
Learning to trust your own judgement takes time and practice. Acknowledge advice and guidance, factor in your own feelings, then move forward in the way that seems right. Have the self confidence to know that even if you fail, you’ll be ok. It’ll be a learning experience regardless.
Sometimes my intuition has been more based in desire instead of following guidance. Sometimes not. You learn the difference as you go. 🙂Raise your vibration by going for a walk, dance, yoga, anything that gets you out of your head.
Come back and take a deep breath and blow it out with sound and gusto. Now that your vibration is higher connect with your higher self and/or your spirit guides. Set the intention to receive clear, concise, and accurate information. Ask your questions in this new energy you created. Trust and believe what you are told/hear/sense/see (information comes in differently for each intuitive).
Btw, most people cannot read for themselves accurately. The Life Mastery Program teaches you how to deal with this.
You should, however, get some insight into your situation.
Many are here to give psychic guidance whenever you ask.Love, Melinda
You are so right–and that is exactly what I am afraid of–that my feelings are more rooted in my desire for it to be true which is why I sought the reading last night, and I was going to act on what I was told. But then I saw Melinda’s comment above and she is correct–he is a very busy man (if he is truly who he says he is). I also know some of his past from what I have found online about him and his family, particularly a brother, and that may be the history that he is trying to keep from me–but he doesn’t know that I already know about all that. He has told me that he is worried that I would listen to what people say about him and not want him anymore. So Melinda’s comment seems to be more true to our conversation and my feelings than the reading was–and that’s what is confusing me. I was looking for confirmation that I’m not just trying to will the truth to fit my desire.
Thank you Melinda–I will do as you suggested. How do I request guidance with my situation? I really need help but I do not want to appear as being selfish and taking advantage of others’ kindness.
Post your questions and we will answer them as quickly as we can. I usually prefer little detail so that the information does not influence me. Psychic readings are guidance from my higher self and yours along with our spirit guides, angels and others.
I also give Mediumship readings. I’ve had training with Lisa Williams. This type of reading is a little different from a psychic reading, although it can also have psychic information.
There is no need to feel selfish. Your questions assist the LMP students (and others) to gain experience. You are helping the community as a whole.With Love, Melinda
Thank you, Melinda. I’m not sure which is appropriate to ask for–a psychic or medium reading. I will defer to you–whatever you deem is appropriate. But I have a few questions:
The busy man that you saw, what else can you tell me about him? Can you describe his appearance and can you tell me his date of birth? Also, there is a bank account. What can you tell me about it?
Thank you.
BeautitreeCA69
Namaste B:
The vision I had was a hunched man with his arms/hands close to his side and his finger moving fast…like someone planning. I also heard the comment, “He keeps his cards close to his chest”. This told me he is a burdened man who carries baggage he wants to keep to himself. He doesn’t want you to really know who he is.
I don’t get a birthdate, and this would be difficult for most psychics to pinpoint an actual birthdate. I hear cancer or Virgo. The energy of Cancer feels stronger. Therefore, his birth month is June 21-July 22I get a sense of being in a casino. I see slot machines. He gambles.
I see a man in his 30s, good-looking, light brown hair. Dresses well. He shows me his shoes. He loves shoes.
I see money going into a bank account. His gambling money goes into the account is the feeling I get. I’m hearing the sound of the slot machines again. I don’t want to explore the bank account any more. I feel this would be a break in privacy.
There is a sense that he has his footprint in many businesses, and he is diversified. Yet, there is a sense of heaviness, like the businesses are not always legitimate.
While he is attracted to you, his energy feels temporary in your life. He will not be a permanent relationship.
I hear the name William (*names do not always come through correctly*). It is a male figure coming through. He is the energy of a grandfather. He feels related to you through your mother. He has strong hands. He is someone who worked hard. I see him in a military uniform. I hear the song, “Putting on the Ritz!” He liked music, enjoyed dancing. He says to beware of this man whom you seek to build a relationship. He is not what he seems to be. Beware that you don’t get hurt.Love, Melinda
Hello Melinda,
Thank you for that. Williams is my maternal grandmother’s maiden name. My mother’s side of the family does love music and dancing very much. I don’t know much about anyone further back than my great-grandmother Williams.
Thank you for the description of the man you see as well, it is very helpful. As far as the bank account, it is my bank accounts that I was actually asking about, including one that has some connection with this man that you see. Are you able to tell me anything about those accounts?
Thank you for helping me bring some clarity into this situation.
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