Will my partner and I of 12 years reconcile? It was over my stupidity that the relationship ended. we had an argument an the police arrested him. We arent allowed contact until the 6 March 2019. Im sure he is my soul mate and the love of my life. We have had our ups an down lately but nothing i thought we couldnt work through. Im not sure how he feels, he told one of our mutual friends that he had lost the woman he had loved for so long and that he was going to propose on our anniversary which is a week away.im very lost and heart broken an just want him bak in my life so we can continue living the life an our dream.