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Hello,
I am deeply in love with a younger man. I would like to know if he feels similarly or if I should move on.
I feel paralyzed. I can’t date other people because no one is as special as him, but this makes me feel like I’m wasting time.
Can someone help me figure out how this person truly feels about me and if we have a future together?
Thank you so much.
Do you have photo of the 2 of you together?
I’m not sensing any reciprocation of feelings from this person. You have your feelings so unfortunately you have to deal with them. You can’t really shut them off. But keep this relationship stagnant. I feel he has met someone else and he’s starting new with this person.
I don’t think we have a photo together. I can send individual photos. Would that work? Also, is there a way to send the photos privately?
Thanks you in advance for your help! Greatly appreciated 🙂
Thank you for your insight, Izabeyah. You are absolutely right that there is another person involved – however, he didn’t just meet her; it was his college girlfriend for three years.
I have a trusted psychic I talk to often, and he said the same thing about the other girl. He said that she is 100 percent controlling him right now (as she’s a ‘master manipulator,’ according to him) and that he doesn’t even see me because of her. But the clairvoyant also said that I feel so strongly about him and can’t move on because we are soulmates and supposed to be together; it’s just that his ego is getting in the way.
Do you see this scenario at all? I’m just trying to gather a few opinions about what I should do next, or if I should do anything at all. He is going away for an uncertain amount of time to be with his ex, and I’m just wondering if I should tell him how I feel before it’s too late. And if so, what I should say.
Thank you in advance for your help!
My best advice is to take your hands off the situation and focus on working on self-improvement. Not that I am saying anything is wrong with you but we can all benefit from learning and growing. I have found Izabeyah to be a gifted psychic so I listen to her!
I did mention about your feelings for him. And I was going to say that I felt they were really strong and that you wouldn’t be able to turn them off. So I see the same thing as respects to that. I was saying to leave the relationship stagnant right now as in still but not dead. And I actually think that is the way it is right now too and that it’s going to be. ( your relationship). I see that he is really planted right now with this girl, taking into consideration that she is manipulating him too.
I understand. I will heed your and Patricia’s advice and not take any action right now; meanwhile, I’ll work on self-improvement.
Thank you both so much for your advice.
I feel like you would regret it if you said something to him about it but you’re not getting over these feelings so it would be completely up to you. It’s going to happen, so it’s better that you do it at a time that you will know what is going on and when the timing is good so you can feel reassured in the long run that you didn’t make a mistake by not telling him your feelings before he goes. But if you don’t tell him, that would be more time to see what the future holds for you two if you can be patient. Meaning if it was meant to be. If it was meant to be there shouldn’t be a rush or anything at stake.
You’re so right about the fact that if it’s meant to be, there’s nothing at stake by not telling him. Thank you. You’ve really given me clarity. I am going to wait to say anything and let him go on this trip with a clear head.
One question: What did you mean by “it’s going to happen”? Were you referring to me revealing my feelings to him, as in that is going to definitely happen at some point?
Again, many thanks! 🙂
I don’t believe you’re going to be able to keep it to yourself forever. That’s why I was saying to use your best judgment when it comes to telling him. I just feel that if you told him now, you might not get good news and regret it because he’s really involved with her right now. I don’t see anything really good coming out of it.
I see what you’re saying and agree. I’m going to keep my feelings to myself for now.
Thank you!!!
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