After four years together, things are simply just not working. There is no growth and we are on different ends of the spectrum in regards to stability, maturity etc. I have matured significantly in the last 9 months due to traumatic life changes. The unexpected deaths of my mom, aunt and grandma. I see things in a different light and he just doesn’t get it, won’t give me my space. Any insights will be greatly appreciated. I’m just still a bit lost.